Monday, July 21, 2014

Elust 60!

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Welcome to Elust #60 -

 

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

 

Shame Hurts
Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica
#RealBodiesAreSexy
 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

 

I may never suck another cock, but I'm still The sofa  

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

 

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

 

My Aftercare
YKINMK but My Kink is Not YOUR Kink either
Nerds, Pervs, and Jeffrey Dahmer
Sex Is Simple. That's Why It's So Complicated
Cuckolding. The Step Child of BDSM?
What Is A Man's Role At A CFNM?
Happily whipping Jesus
What are your views on the ethics of kink?
FetLife and The Single Gal 
How Porn and BDSM Helped Me
 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

 

Tall guys! You're a bunch of sick perverts!
In Which I Fuck Up and My Uterus Saves Me
 Why Is There So Much Shame? Birds do it, Bees do it...
Little Lower Layer
Wooing, pursuing, romancing a dominant woman
Sexual Freedom. Why Do I Feel I Need to Hide.
Our Age Gap Shouldn't Be Your Insecurity
Advanced kegel: stroking with only PC muscles
Impress your lover with these oral sex moves
 

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

The Hashtag Activism...It Burns It!
Sex Worker Etiquette
Rant Break: SCOTUS and Hobby Lobby Rage
Subs Need Classes Too!
 

Erotic Fiction

 

A Flight Attendants Secret
Relentless
Sit 
Festival car park fun
Private Performance
And The Band Played On 
 Consequences Part One
 

Blogging

 

A warning for erotic writers and sex bloggers
Bloggy, Soggy, and Sexy
 

Erotic Non-Fiction

 

Don't Ever Make Me Wait Again Words
 

Poetry

 

Satan's String - a Lusty Limerick 
 

Writing About Writing

 

Writing Erotica for Trans Readers Pt 1


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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

My eyes are over here

Hello—you—yes, you, the person speaking to my boyfriend. You know, that guy standing right next to me—the guy you are asking about whether or not you can come into my personal space. Yes, my space—not his—mine. So why exactly are you not speaking directly to me?

We are at a kink event so we must be power exchange, right? Well, no—but I am totally okay with the assumption that we are because, really, who cares? What I am not okay with are the assumptions that 1. Because I am female I must be submissive and 2. Being submissive, I am unable to speak for myself.

I have identified as submissive and slave at various points in my kink life, but I have never given up being a thinking human being who is quite capable of answering a question about my own damn body.

The default should not be to ignore the female and ask the male you assume speaks for her—doing so treats her as someone with no identity of her own who only exists through her relationship to someone else.

If you want to hug me, ask me—if you want to play with me, ask me. If I am in a relationship that requires you to speak with someone else, I will tell you—please do not think that just because I am female and in a relationship that I have given up the right to be treated as an adult.

Friday, June 20, 2014

Consequences Part One

She sat in the passenger seat of the car and pretended to stare at the scenery outside her window. She was vaguely aware of the fact that they had stopped in front of a large building in the industrial section of the city, but she was too busy wondering what her Master would do to her to fully register her surroundings. He was angry, very angry, and for the first time in their relationship she feared she may have actually gone too far. She had tried to explain her actions—the foolish moment of insanity followed by an honest mistake—but he had stopped listening when he realized that her explanation really came down to nothing more than a long-winded “oops.”

He hadn’t actually spoken to her since “the incident.” They had left the party immediately and he dropped her off at her apartment without giving any indication of the intended punishment. When two days passed with no word she started resigning herself to the fact that he was gone, so when he finally showed up on the third day she was too relieved to worry about the consequences of her actions. She ran to him as he came through the door and threw herself at his feet. She wanted to explain to him what had really happened at that party, to tell him that she wasn’t a slut, but he cut her off with a sharp look. She bristled against the order of silence, but she was fairly certain that the “but we only kissed for a few minutes” defense would not work anyway, even if her partner in crime was a submissive girl they both knew. Ok, and this little submissive male, but he wasn’t invited—he was just sort of there. She wasn’t sure how he came to be standing behind her and fondling her breasts, but she was sure that her Master could not have walked in at a worse moment.

He didn’t say anything as he walked into the apartment, but he knew that she would follow him. When he reached her bedroom he stared at her for a few silent moments before starting to prepare her for a punishment she both feared and welcomed. He took his time with her, but he was not gentle. He ripped off the innocent looking white chemise that she had worn just in case he showed up. She had no bra beneath it so he gave her panties the same treatment before dragging her into the bathroom and making her kneel over the side of the cold bathtub. She heard him rummaging through her cabinets, but she lacked the nerve to turn around to see what he had found. He knelt beside her and she steeled herself for a slap that did not come. What she felt instead was the smoothness of a gloved hand opening her up and a lubricated finger slipping into her ass. Her face burned as she realized that a cleansing would follow, but she tried not to shiver or make any noise. She wanted to show him that she was his, and that she accepted his punishment.

He leaned against the sink, watching her, and when he felt an appropriate amount of time had passed he roughly pulled her to her feet and ordered her to finish before leaving the room. When he returned several moments later she was kneeling on the floor, waiting. He pulled her to her feet again, but this time he placed her in the shower and turned the water on. She instinctively jumped away from the icy water, but he pushed her under the spray and started washing everything but her hair. He was rough as he scrubbed her, but the smoothness of the rose scented soap as he washed her cunt made her groan. He chuckled then and scrubbed harder and slipped his lathered hand inside her for a moment before rinsing her and leading her back to the bedroom. He dried her quickly then left her standing there as he started going through her closet and drawers.

He soon returned with her intended outfit and she stayed silent and compliant as he dressed her. Black stockings, black garter belt, panties and bra. She smiled inwardly as she realized he had chosen the lingerie set she bought specifically for her streetwalker fantasy. It was made of cheap material and covered in lace and small tacky rhinestones, and the material of the shelf bra stopped well below her nipples. Over this he placed a simple sleeveless red dress she only wore on hot summer days. It didn’t match the rest of the outfit at all. The material fell to her knees and showed no real cleavage. It was so thin that she was sure that the outline of the bra showed through, but it wasn’t really slutty. She didn’t have much time to ponder his choices, however, because she was soon slipped into her four inch fuck-me pumps and led out the door and into the car.

Now, thirty minutes later she was sitting in the passenger side, staring out the window, and wondering what was next.

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Elust 58!

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Photo courtesy of Pandora Blake

Welcome to Elust #58 -

 

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #59? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

 

Do NOT take my rapeplay fantasy away from me! Pulp Fiction “O” is for Outlaw No More
 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

 

The Second Letter The Wake
 

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

 

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

 

Orgasm Denial Games and Ideas
 What is “Normal,” Anyway?
Abject Submission 3: Only the Gift
Is All BDSM Sexual? #KinkySex
A new Dom asked me for advice
Let's Talk Sex Stigma
What I want On Being Submissive
Dildos in Wonderland - Fantasy Sex Toys
 

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

My sexual Assaults
 Risky Business
What is feminist porn?
Butt Plug Weekend (Humor)
The Shaming of Slut Shaming
Do Bisexuals Need To Be More Upfront?
Why I Don't Support CatalystCon
 

Erotic Non-Fiction

 

The 'Good' Girl vs The Whore - Marriage
Well Laid
The sheer poetry of pegging a homophobe
The Missouri Misery's Maiden Voyage
On the Edge (Touch Your Cock for Me)
Parking On A Dirt Road
Masturbation: The Big Finish
The four-day orgasm
Dear lover
 

Writing About Writing

 

Imagining Disabled Characters in Erotica
 

Poetry

 

Simple Needs - a Lusty Limerick
 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

 

On Happiness and Risk Sex addiction - a primer
More Than Bend Over Boyfriend Toys
 

Erotic Fiction

 

Neverland
X marks the spot
Chain Links and the Rail Marshall
The Devil and the Golden Ring
A lonely day in Paradise
Mine Is Bigger Than Yours
Rub It Harder Face Splash – Part 1 Stray Kat
Sneaky Sexy Snippet of A Work in Progress
 

Blogging

 

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