Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Elust #63!

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Welcome to Elust #63 -

 

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

 

I am Sexy at Every Size 
Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM
Hovering
 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

 

Show Me, Daddy
The pride of being a dom
 

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

 

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Monday, September 29, 2014

On being a feminist and a dirty little slut

In my daily life, I am an out and proud feminist who marches in the SlutWalk and speaks out against inequality on a regular basis. As a student and academic, I study rape culture and rail against the systems of oppression that exist in every single country. I am an equal partner in my primary relationship in every way, and I push hard against any person or situation that seeks to place me in an inferior position because I am female.

But sometimes, just sometimes—I want to be treated like a dirty little slut. I want to wrestle and be tied up and have a cock pushed into my mouth and be made to worship it. I want to exist only as a pussy and a mouth (and, for my darling SoleFood, feet). I want to be forced in that moment to accept that I am a whore and that I exist only for pleasure.

I am okay with this.

I have been asked quite a few times how I reconcile these two aspects of my personality and my short answer is simply, “I don’t.” I don’t feel the need to. I have no problem distinguishing fantasy from reality—and I understand that darkness and fear and the forbidden are often hot.

The reality is that this lifestyle often flirts with, and pushes the definition of, the edge. Degradation, bestiality, incest, cannibalism, torture, and all manner of other dark desires work their way into our stories and scenes to varying degrees. We pretend to be animals, schoolgirls, plantation owners, brutal prison guards, bad little boys, sadistic mommies, and Nazi soldiers--it may not be pretty, it may not be comfortable, but it is what we do.

We are some politically incorrect motherfuckers.

My own dark fantasies—force, objectification, humiliation—have been with me almost as long as I have been aware of my sexuality (and that is a pretty damn long time). I could examine my desires and psychoanalyze them to the point where I either start to think I am sick, or they cease to be hot—neither outcome is ideal. I don’t think wanting to be objectified in pursuit of pleasure makes me any less of a strong, independent woman, and I see no need to try and spoil my own fun.

So, yes—I am a feminist, and a dirty little slut, and many, many other things—and I am at peace with my sexuality.

Sunday, September 21, 2014

Elust #62!

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hoto courtesy of Bawdy Bloke

 

Welcome to Elust #62 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

 

Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk
 Selfies, Shame and Safety
 'Dress me like a slut and punish my cock'
 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

 

I live in a sex-positive bubble.
Wicked Wednesday: Silent Memories  

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

 

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Sunday, August 17, 2014

Elust #61!

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Photo courtesy of Maria opens up

Welcome to Elust #61 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Bloggers, please
I Touch Myself
Stunt Porn / People Porn
 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Is sex unsexy? A 'His & Hers' post Van Gogh, an erotic author and a selfie...

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

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His Desires  

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!