My OPEN group met tonight at my house and several things became clear to me:
1. I enjoy being the center of attention.
2. I adore being part of a cuddle puddle, especially when, as was the case tonight, that cuddle puddle involves the man I am in love with and two men that I crush on :-)
3. The people in my group represent an amazing cross-section of non-monogamy and contain a great deal of knowledge.
4. Trying to explain/defend non-monogamy to a monogamous person just makes my commitment to a non-monogamous lifestyle stronger.
Okay, to be fair, none of these things is really a surprise--but they occur me again tonight as I am sitting here and thinking about the meeting :-)