Friday, July 26, 2013

State of the Union

When I started this blog, I was in a power-exchange relationship with a man who had another full-time partner. From there I moved onto a triad without power-exchange, and an on-again, off-again relationship with my best friend. I then enjoyed some time as a single poly person—all of which is well documented throughout this site.

When I stopped writing the blog, I was just starting a new relationship after several months of emotional reboot and evaluation of what I want, both in kink and non-monogamy. I didn't make a conscious decision to stop, I just found myself writing less and less as my life got busier and more complicated with major life changes and travels near and far. 

So, now I am ready to write again--and this is where my non-monogamous life stands:

I am now living with my love—the new relationship mentioned above, the man with whom I want to build a life filled with adventure, and sensuality, and Doctor Who. He has a play partner/lover in another state, and I have a former lover who recently became a current lover, also in another state. His situation is somewhat regular, I have no idea what mine will be—my guess is good friends who get together once a year or so to spend time together. We also have a few casual non-sex partners that allow us to explore other types of play. This all sounds much more simplistic than it actually is, of course, but we are now in a very good place. 

I am looking forward to exploring just how we got here. 

2 comments:

Seeattle Polychick said...

Hello there. I just popped by to say hello and let you know I was perving on your blog. :) I'm glad you are writing it again, because it's lovely and I think we might be kindred on a few things. It's good to know something of you, and I thought I'd be friendly. So, "hi there"!

Literary Wench said...

Hello--it is nice to "meet" you!

I have enjoyed a bit of your blog as well, and I like what you have to say.

I look forward to getting to know you better :-)